Thursday, May 19, 2016

Mindin' other people's business seems to be high-toned

Some days I love being a kinkster and being a part of the scene/profession. Some days I want to set people on fire. Slowly. One match at a time.


Go ahead and laugh. Think I'm kidding. Meanwhile I'm stockpiling matches like the Little Match Girl... of Hans Christian Andersen's worst nightmares come true.



Tee hee?


Look, I have been debating Financial Domination with other kinkster for years. YEARS. I have been standing up for a perfectly reasonable fetish, not just because other kinksters think it's a bad/fake fetish, but also because the Insta-Dommes of the internet are dragging the kink down into the proverbial mud.



I just can't stand by and let it happen. I'm too much of a stubborn Bitch.


Some of you know the term "Insta-Domme" from My past rants. For those new to this title, let Me explain.



Firstly, it's not just the financial domination fetish that gets these wanna be's. It's all over the kink spectrum. Thanks to our BFF, the Internet. Along comes a random web surfer, usually female but this title is Equal Opportunity. They see that real Dominants are getting fame, attention, money, etc... they want in. So they sit back, observe those of us who actually know what We're doing... then copy/paste verbatim what they think will get them the same spotlight. They vomit up the same catch phrases and key words that we use. They take the overused middle finger pic, while calling people losers. Sure, some submissives eat that up, but those subs deserve real Domination. Not a mimicry of it.



So there you have it. the Insta-Dommes, BDSM's little parrots. Clueless parrots. Generally useless parasitical parrots.


Polly wanna shut the fuck up?


Financial Domination is a legitimate fetish and should be respected as such. No kink shaming, dammit. There are Dominants who want to control everything in a sub’s life, including finances. They may want to be spoiled as well as worshiped. And there are submissives who are equally into this fetish and willing participants. So pull your latex panties out of your asses and calm the fuck down. If it’s not your kink, fine. But respect the fetishists who ARE into it. Back off. Mind your own damned (and kinky) business. You’re whining and shaming does nothing for the fetish lifestyle. It helps in no way and it will not make Financial Domination magically disappear.



There. Rant over. Ahhhh. I feel so much better. Now back to work!